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I know lots of guys my age (40s) who are hung up on the idea that they want a 20-something boyfriend.It's just not a reasonable demand..when I dig deeper I see that they are stunted emotionally in some way, and never had that 'perfect boyfriend' when THEY were in their 20's..can't move on from that until they get some young twink to fall in love with them. I meant to add that hooking up with younger guys is a whole 'nother story.They don't want to date guys their own age because, in the words of a friend of mine, they don't want to just "sit home every night, watch tv and fuck". If you're smart you'll get over your crisis and look for guys your own age. I'm 35, when I was in my 20s I couldn't get a date at all.Not even so much as a glance from a 1000 people in a room. It's so boring when people generalise about everyone else.We worked together so I certainly wasn't giving him money--we made about the same.Though there weren't that many years difference between us, it sort of bothered me.I'm 44, but look 34, thanks to very good genetics and a healthy lifestyle, and I attract mostly guys in their mid 20s looking for someone a little older.When I finally tell them the truth--that I'm old enough to be their father--they don't really care.
In my opinion, what's attractive in a guy in his 40s or older is that he's more likely to have his shit together, personally and professionally.So what you are saying you only have ten years left to live beacuse you are so shallow that you think if you look 45 - Its not worth living?You better get a handle on your old age now or you are in for a shock. [quote]I'm 44, but look 34, thanks to very good genetics and a healthy lifestyle Oh, dear - another eldergay trying to convince themselves they look 10 years younger than they are. " comments when I mention that I'm 44 to know that it's true.The guy I've been seeing is financially secure (relatively well-off, but certainly not rich).He's led a pretty full life and has experienced a lot, which means he has good stories to tell and helpful advice to give. The fact that he's been to just about every bar and restaurant in the city means he is now perfectly content spending a quiet evening at home, which suits me just fine.