Dating someone with herpes
It has never been my desire to be in a relationship like this.
I have many reasons for engaging in this kind of relationship (a very long story) but believe me, it's not my long term choice.
Since many people engage in oral sex without the use of condoms or dental dams, getting genital herpes from oral sex is increasingly common.
And the not-so-"funny" thing is, it's more common to be thought of as "dirty" or "damaged goods" if you have HSV2, yet no one seems to mind if it's "just a cold sore."HSV1 and HSV2 are essentially the same virus -- it's just a matter of where they present on the body.
I wish it weren't true, but I have contracted the virus for genital herpes.
How can I risk the health and wellbeing of someone that I love? I can only imagine the pain (both physical and emotional), the worry about your sex life being over, the anger (at him and at you) for allowing this to happen, and the stress of symptoms that just won't go away.I've conferred with my partner Todd (who is a physician) and I've read (as I'm sure you have) numerous websites about the typical symptoms of herpes.None seem to be anywhere as severe as you've described and for that reason, Todd suggested that you may want to consider seeing a specialist: an immunologist.I wish I had the space to cover this topic on this blog post (but I'm already way over).I would however like to bring your attention to a great page I've found called "Telling Someone" on