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Try thinking about why you find arousal and orgasm problematic.Is it linked to anxiety about what being a sexual woman means? Moderator: Here's a question from a member who would like to remain anonymous I've just entered my 40th year and I've been married to a wonderful man for over 20 years but for a long time now I have not had the disire to have sex with him.I suspect that you have some problems with your hormones.Even though you are only in your 40s it could be that your hormones are changing in preparation for the menopause.It's also important to explain why you are less interested in sex or he may wonder if you fancy him less.
Some men develop premature ejaculation because they feel angry with their partner about a problem in the relationship. Try using a technique called the squeeze technique. I was abused as a child and I believe this may be the cause of some of my problems.
I suggest talking to your GP who should be able to advise you.
In the meantime, make love when you feel interested and boost your affection towards your husband so that he doesn't feel abandoned or hurt.
Moderator: Here's a message we received earlier: Julia, I hope you can help.
My partner suffers from premature ejaculation and it's ruining our sex life.